Aryaman, or Aryama, is said the be your best friend and is invoked with Mitra and Varuna, which I established in a previous article represent the conscious aspect of the ego and shadow self. In accordance with Sigmund Freud’s model of personality, Aryaman is the voice of reason – although sometimes he doesn’t say much. He is very much a live-and-let-live type of guy.
However, he is Truth – the voice of expressive knowledge that will deliver joy and power when merited. The Vedas refer to him as a “guard of the Sacred Laws”. The cosmic laws of consciousness.
In true alchemical fashion, Aryaman is associated with chivalry, honour and nobility that govern the rules of society. He is the disciplinarian that orders us to do the right thing – to carry out your dharma in the way your consciousness is ordained.
The Hindu god could be said to be the power and determination that enables us to transcend above the whims of the ego, the immatured mind that is all about wanting and desire. And he is. But Aryman also sits on the fence and allows us to make the same mistakes then sits back to watch the Aswins karma twins kick your ass.
There is an ancient shamanic expression about two wolves that reside within us. One of the wolves is a mellow, friendly wolf, and the other is an angry, pedantic wolf. The wolves fight a lot. The wolf that wins is the one you feed the most. And that is the wolf that is reflected in your nature.
However, the Super-ego resides in the personal unconscious which is often programmed with limiting beliefs and false Truths you have been told by parents, teachers, the media, and religious and political leaders. There are times when you have to feed the shadow self. As the psychoanalyst, Carl Jung pointed out, if you are not aware of the dark side of your nature, it can be dangerous for the psyche.
In The Republic, Plato used the allegory of the shadow on the cave wall to reflect his knowledge of the unseen darkness that lies within us. After a lengthy dialogue, Socrates concludes:
“The process, I said, is not the turning over of an oyster-shell, but the turning round of a soul passing from a day which is little better than night to the true day of being, that is, the ascent from below, which we affirm to be true philosophy?”
In Hindu mythology, Aryaman is represented as a dutiful god that controls time and judges the whims of Mitra (the dawning of self-knowledge) and Varuna (the egoic mind) impartially. The gods are the opposing wolves of the personal unconscious that “ascend from below.”
The ancients were verily aware of our dual personalities and understood the need for frivolity as well as the need to restrain ourselves and take everything in moderation to keep our soul in sync with our life’s purpose. Like everything in nature, we need balance to thrive. Aryaman is that balance so when he does speak, listen to him.